@Nick-Carthew Thanks for the tip. I tried this, but the Tomtom still wants to drive far north before turning. Even with multiple waypoints south. It's kinda amazing how stubborn it is..
My workaround is to split this route into multiple routes. If I set my endpoint, where currently Point 2 is. it obviously stops there and does not ant to drive onwards. But I now hae three routes for one driving day instead of one. (have another point on the same day where the same issue exists)